At a glance
Honest and open conversations, both with your provider and sexual partner(s), are an important part of keeping yourself and your partner(s) safe from sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
Partner(s) Conversation Tips
Don't Avoid the Conversation
Talk with your partner(s) BEFORE having sex so you can both make informed choices about your sexual health.
Be Open and Honest
Be clear with your partner about the number of sexual partners you have.
Be Understanding
Being respectful and nonjudgmental can create the space for a more productive conversation. This also helps lay the groundwork to keep those conversations going.
Let Them Know
Tell your partner if you have an STI, even if you're currently taking medicine to treat those infections.
Ask When They Were Last Tested
Find out when they were last tested for STIs. Consider getting tested together.
Healthcare Provider Conversation Tips
Find the Right Healthcare Provider
It's important to feel comfortable and heard, so take the time to find the right fit for you.
Ask to Get Tested for STIs
The sooner you are treated for an STI, the less chance an infection will impact other parts of your health.
Be Open and Honest
Knowing your sexual history and any symptoms you have will help your provider to provide the best possible treatment.
Don't Be Afraid to Ask Questions
The more aware you are of how to prevent infections, the better prepared you will be.
Consider Expedited Partner Therapy (EPT)
If you are concerned your partner has an infection, talk to your provider about EPT, which allows treatment without evaluation.
Want more tips?
See the National Coalition for Sexual Health's guidance on questions you can ask your healthcare provider and what a provider is likely to ask you. Tips and conversation starters for different scenarios with partner(s) are also available (see "Talk about safer sex" section).